The least binaristic representation of gender equality I could find. (Source) |
Clearly this is just one of many cases in which the connotative and denotative meanings of a word are so disconnected that they indicate the need for serious reassessment of certain aspects of our language. I propose that the backlash against feminism is partially a function of the word "feminism" itself: it not only excludes genders other than feminine, it also represents the concept as monolithic, as if all feminists and non-feminists agree on a single definition (which they clearly don't) and as if it has always meant the same thing. Arguments against this idea are varied, coming from feminists and non-feminists alike, although there are definitely proponents on both sides as well (as evidenced by this Debate.org page).
One of the main arguments against my position (found in articles like these) is that changing the word will do little to assuage the resistance against gender equality, that the word we use is irrelevant when confronting a population in denial about the persistent systemic and institutional gender inequality historically entrenched in some of "Western" culture's most basic values and assumptions. Aside from the disturbing pessimism inherent in this argument, it also makes little sense from a contemporary sociolinguistic perspective. Another argument is that using umbrella terms (like gender equality or equalism) further marginalizes already marginalized groups, like women, and focuses attention only on the dominant population. I'd respond (with just one of the many possible counter-arguments) that reactionary ideologies like men's rights activism, which has been steadily gaining traction (much to the dismay of people who actually understand gender issues), do even more to marginalize, silence, and erase non-dominant groups than an inclusive, catch-all term would.
Suffice it to say that this is an issue that requires more redress than space currently permits. The "F-word" creates more barriers than it opens opportunities for frank, productive conversations about gender issues. It is practically as alienating as that other ubiquitous f-word, and alienation is the exact opposite of what feminism is supposed to be promoting. This is by no means an original or unique position; I would simply like to examine this issue from a more analytical and theoretically-grounded perspective than I see public intellectuals engaging with.